Girls This Is Why He's Not Taking You Seriously

Oh no, just no.

So I did a post that was directed towards the guys giving them a little knowledge about things you shouldn't be doing if you want a girl to take you seriously. This post is for my girls! I think we can all agree that the picture says it all. But hey were young, we wanna go party in the club with our friends and not have a care in the world. Unfortunately partying only lasts a weekend or so then were left with the feeling like "why didn't he call me" "we had such a great time" blah blah blah.

Sometimes we meet guys and were not out partying and you feel like oh my gosh he's great I think this can really go somewhere. You've been going out with the same guy for a couple months or so and you still feel like he's not taking you seriously yet. I'm not siding with him but there's probably a reason he's not calling you his girl yet.

Girls, you have to read his body language and recongnize the way he acts towards you. If he calls you everyday, is genuinely interested in getting to know you, introduces you to his friends then he's probably feeling you in some way. Some guys aren't the best communicators but hey neither are some girls. If you're wondering why he's not doing any of these things yet then maybe you should start taking a look at the way you are acting and doing certain things.

Here's a couple reasons why you're probably not going to meet his mom yet...

1. He's not going to take you seriously if you sleep around.

Be a lady. Have fun but don't be a rachet.

2. He's not going to take you seriously if you are hitting up all his friends.

Come on girls be smarter than that. You do know that boys gossip just as much as girls, maybe even more. No one respects a homie hopper.

3. He's not going to take you seriously if you aren't genuine.

There is only one of you in the entire world!!! So be yourself. If he doesn't dig it then move on, there are a million fish in the sea that will love you for you.

4. He's not going to take you seriously if you compare him to your exes.

The past is in the past. If you compare him to your last failed relationship then this one might be headed in that direction as well.

5. He's not going to take you seriously if you continue to play head games with him.

If you like him then tell him. I can't believe girls are still not responding to texts because they feel like if they don't answer it will make the guy like them more. NO! It just makes him super annoyed with you.

Ready, set, go!

Xoxo,

A Guy's Girl