13 Things Your Boyfriend Secretly Loves

Boys, we can't live them but we can't live without them.

Yeah, your boyfriend watches Sex and the City re-runs with you all while secretly rolling his eyes, he even volunteers to be the DD for a night out with you and your wasted girlfriends, and if your lucky he’ll even bring you pizza without you asking. He may even tell you a little white lie, that he “doesn’t mind” or he “doesn’t care” what you want to do he just wants to do whatever he can to make you happy. And AWE aren’t you the sweetest. But I feel like couples in our day and age forget relationships are a TWO-WAY street. Girls have distorted views of their boyfriends and start to compare them to their friends’ boyfriends.

“Why doesn’t he ever buy me flowers?”

“Why doesn’t he buy me fancy jewelry?” BLAH BLAH BLAH…..

Ladies, it’s time to take a look in the mirror, and start giving your guy the opportunity to do what he wants. I’m not dismissing you either gals, of course your needs are important but so are his! Start widening your horizons and taking a walk in his shoes. You might find that you like what you see.

Here are the 15 things that your boyfriend will secretly love…

1. Boyfriends love when you text them first. Of course there is that annoying stereotype when you’re first getting to know each other that you have to wait until he texts you to respond. But you’re dating! Take charge, boys always love that ;)

2. Boyfriends love when you hangout with their family. It means a lot to him when you go to dinner with his family, more than he’s ever willing to admit.

3. Boyfriends love when you plan a sexy date night for him. Dress up for him, with dinner, wine, candles and he’ll be more than a happy camper.

4. Boyfriends love when you play video games with them. I am telling you from experience that Mario Party/Kart is legit the funniest game ever. So branch out girly-girls, you’ll be happy you did.

5. Boyfriends love when you get along with their friends. It’s the best when you can hangout with your girl and your guys. Having to choose between, always causes resentment between the two parties.

6. Boyfriends love when you buy him clothes. Or any surprise presents that HE likes aka they don’t suck.

7. Boyfriends love when you leave them little love notes. Okay, I’m not talking super long 3-page notes, but little notes here and there telling him how much he means to you. Little gestures, go along way.

8. Boyfriends love when you give him control of the remote. As much as he loves Pretty Little Liars, just for the night let him have the remote. Remember, boys enjoy being in control too ladies.

9. Boyfriends love when you watch Marvel movies. Growing up they loved super heroes, of course they wanted to be Spider-Man so let them relive it every once in awhile. Watching a 2-hour movie isn’t gonna kill you.

10. Boyfriends love when you brag about him to your friends. When you post a cute #MCM pic of him, he is super stoked even if he doesn’t say so.

11. Boyfriends love when you bring their favorite beer over. Beer + You = Real Life Heaven

12. Boyfriends love when you let them go out with their friends. He loves you but he loves his boys too. Trust is a HUGE part in relationships, if you don’t trust your guy enough to let him go out with his homies then you need to re-evaluate your relationship.

13. Boyfriends love when your affectionate. Okay, we all know PDA make out seshs are a little hard on the eyes of onlookers. But cute little kisses here and their secretly melt his heart and mean a lot to him.

Your guy is already the happiest guy because he’s dating YOU. So go out there and run the extra mile for him because you love him. Go make your guy even happier than he already is.

Xoxo,

A Guy’s Girl

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